The Compatibility Trap: Why "Culture Fit" is Killing Your 3 Es
When I’m coaching leaders, I often see them fall into the "Compatibility Trap"—the dangerous assumption that a team’s success is built on how well everyone likes each other or how similar their backgrounds are. Managers often rely on their "gut" to assemble teams, which is usually just a polite word for affinity bias. They look for "culture fit" but end up creating an echo chamber of people who think, work, and communicate exactly like they do. This doesn't just stifle innovation; it creates a structural weakness where the 3 Es begin to erode. You might have an Engaged group of friends, but you lose Effectiveness and Efficiency because no one is there to challenge the status quo or point out the blind spots in the room. The trouble starts when leaders assume that a high-performing individual in one context will automatically thrive in another without considering the systemic "swirl" of the new team. They ignore (or even be unaware of) the...